Preparing beforehand -- the forgotten step in loving one another (Luminous Friday)
How prepared are you to engage people this hour in the presence and power of Jesus? The last two Thursday nights I have had the honor of gathering with a group of men and women, reading aloud part of Luminous , and discussing the material with them. Last night we focused on the last half of chapter 5, Being Present with One Another. Our discussion zeroed in on what it means to come into social interactions spiritually prepared rather than just showing up. One group member said, “I’m a teacher, and it is important for me to come to class prepared. I wonder why we don’t pay the same kind of attention to being prepared before we spend time with people in everyday life.” There are three ways to prepare yourself before entering social situations. 1. Set your will. “Before you interact, you decide that when you get into social situations, you will act only for the flourishing of others… Want nothing but shalom for other people…” ( Luminous , 96-97). This is best done by sa...